The Monkey the Cat Podcast

"Timing Matters—Sometimes Waiting Before Speaking Is Wise" Episode 50

Don Fessenden Season 1 Episode 50

"Hey there, my fur-tastic friends! Welcome back to The Monkey the Cat Podcast! I’m Monkey, your favorite talking cat, and today’s episode is all about something that can be hard for talkers like me—knowing when not to speak.

Our lesson today? Timing matters—sometimes waiting before speaking is wise.

You might think the smartest thing is to say what’s on your mind right away. But sometimes, the wisest thing is to pause, listen, and wait for the right moment. Let me tell you about the time I learned this lesson… the hard way… during a big surprise party gone wrong."

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Tyler:

"Hey there, my fur-tastic friends! Welcome back to The Monkey the Cat Podcast! I’m Monkey, your favorite talking cat, and today’s episode is all about something that can be hard for talkers like me—knowing when not to speak. Our lesson today? Timing matters—sometimes waiting before speaking is wise. You might think the smartest thing is to say what’s on your mind right away. But sometimes, the wisest thing is to pause, listen, and wait for the right moment. Let me tell you about the time I learned this lesson… the hard way… during a big surprise party gone wrong.""It was Teddy’s birthday. We planned a surprise party with all his favorite things:✅Tennis balls.✅Cheese treats.✅A cake shaped like a fire hydrant. Brooklyn and I were in charge of keeping the secret. Olivff made a giant card. Max was rehearsing his birthday song. But me? I was so excited, I could barely keep it in. When Teddy walked in from his walk with Dad—I almost blurted,‘SURPR—’ But I caught myself. Then… he opened the door to the backyard, and I did blurt:‘THERE’S CAKE AND EVERYONE’S HIDING IN THE BUSHES!’ Silence. Then Max dropped his kazoo. Brooklyn groaned. Teddy blinked. Surprise? Spoiled.""I felt awful. I didn’t mean to ruin it. I was just excited. Later, Mom—sat beside me. She said,‘Monkey, I know you love words. But sometimes, waiting to use them is what makes them special.’ She smiled and added,‘The best words are the ones that arrive at the right moment—not just the first moment.’ That day, I learned:🔹Words are powerful… but timing gives them meaning.🔹A pause can protect a surprise, a feeling, or a friend’s moment.🔹Listening first and speaking second can be an act of kindness. The next time I got excited? I paused. Took a breath. And waited. And it made all the difference." What We Learned Today🔹Speaking too soon can spoil a moment—but waiting can make it shine.🔹Timing your words shows patience, wisdom, and care.🔹Listening helps you understand what really needs to be said—and when.🔹Sometimes, silence is a sign of love, too."So here’s my challenge for YOU today: Practice pausing before you speak.✅When you’re excited—pause and check if it’s the right time.✅When someone’s talking—listen all the way before answering.✅When emotions are high—wait, breathe, and choose words with care. Because what you say is important. But when you say it? That can change everything. Thanks for tuning in to The Monkey the Cat Podcast! Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and remember—your words matter most when they come with care, kindness, and the right timing. Until next time, my pawsome pals—stay thoughtful, stay mindful, and keep listening with love. Bye for now!"